Personal Journal: the strategic default of the house we purchased in 2006

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Housing Reflection: Summing Up





I bought a tree for my husband's birthday.  It's a dogwood.  He sees it, in the woods or in a yard, and asks me its name nearly every time.  "It's a dogwood", I say.  He loves them, but can't remember the name, I think because they look different in every season.  


To celebrate him and our new house, I got him a dogwood.  It is small and spindly, but it will grow into something more beautiful with time.  I hope to get to watch it grow here.  We have arrived.  We are home.  







Where people live is a big deal, and where I live has not just been about safety and comfort, it has shaped my character.  Here are some closing thoughts on this story:

  • Home is not a place.
  • Peace can be found during tumult through integrity.
  • Integrity requires fortitude.
  • I have more fortitude than I thought I did.
  • Trying harder sometimes won't make things better.
  • Failure is often a doorway to a better place.
  • Hope can be found in failure.


It is my wish to have passed a bit of the hope we have found, to you.  Thank you for reading my story.